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Something as Natural as Breathing

February 14, 2021 Leave a Comment

IAM Breathing RetreatsIt’s kind of funny that over time modern humans have created retreats for something as natural as breathing. But come to think of it, even a newborn baby isn’t left to his/her own devices for its first breath. Think of your own breathing right now.

How does your breath behave this moment?

How does it move in your body? Is it regular and deep? Do you sometimes hold it throughout the day? Do you notice how you start changing it when you put your attention to it?

The first thing you might realise, is that you’re often not even that aware of your breath or breathing patterns. It has a life of its own. But that doesn’t mean it is fully functioning and serving your body, mind and mood in an optimum way. This is because there are many moments during growing up when our breath is interfered with, mainly through stress and anxiety. Without instruction on how to wisely deal with those traumatic instances, we create unconscious coping mechanisms, often involving the way we breathe. We might start breathing more shallowly or hold our breath at regular intervals without noticing.

Read: A student of Tushita tells how IAM Breathing has helped with Relaxation and Strength in their body.

Are you aware of your breath or breathing patterns?

When you start becoming more aware of the way you might be breathing throughout the day, you’ll quickly realise it might be a good idea to learn a thing or two about it. And to take some time out to focus on your breathing patterns and learn some good techniques for optimum oxygenation. Awareness, exercises, habit release are a powerful mix to improve how you feel and how your body functions. And when the body functions as it should, all kind of ailments seem to magically disappear. Cleared by oxygen, relaxation and understanding.

Here’s a great account of a student’s practise with deep breathing.

You’re always carrying your breath with you

As a bonus, your breath becomes more of an anchor during day-to-day stresses and upheavals we all experience. You’re always carrying your breath with you. In the words of Yanchiji, living spiritual master and renunciate founder of the Tushita Hermitage and Tushita Mystery School,

“Breathing is our most vital bodily intimacy with Life. We do not have to make it up. No ego required. Only the ego thinks it makes something, that it creates something. Music and poetry and inspiration and wisdom and intelligence and beauty and energy are already in Life; we do not make those “things” but we can express them, we can transmit them.”

 


Who wrote this piece? Tushita Mystery School blogs are written by a number of Students at the Tushita Hermitage. Their anonymity supports their self-forgetting practice.

Filed Under: Breathing Tagged With: breath

Inspiration for Boring Meditation

February 5, 2021 Leave a Comment

Meditation Eyes Focus

Meditation doesn’t seem to do anything for us (unlike the quick pick-me-up of a coffee or flick through a news feed).

Sitting in silence doesn’t get us ahead in any of our self-improvement projects (in fact it takes time away from the gym and our to-do lists).

It doesn’t offer to make our lives easier (unlike buying that new, better, faster time-saving thing…), and unlike a holiday away somewhere, it demands something of us, …meditation can easily slip down our list of priorities!

If this happens to you and holding a meditation discipline is important to you, consider the following tips.

– Try naming your meditation time

A name might remind you of what you like about it or remind you of what it is for you. Instead of thinking of ‘meditation’, you might be more into it as something like ‘just sit’ time, my ‘no worrying’ time, my ‘leave myself alone’ time, or ‘rest in being’ time.

If you’re prone to trying to please everyone, this might be a time where you give yourself permission to not enter into thoughts about others’ well-being and get to experience yourself feeling free of trying to be a good mother, a good guy,  good at your job…  if you feel that you’re always trying to get through something, waiting for something to be over, then this might be a time where you let yourself not go with those thoughts of not being ‘there’ yet and sit in the freedom of them passing on by.

Whatever your motivation for practice is for you at the time, feeling yourself existing before, after and during all of the usual thoughts that drag us around all day, can be very empowering.

Consider this: Are we Addicted to Trying?

– Try not to rate your meditations as ‘good’ or ‘bad’

…especially in terms of how busy your mind was. Talk like this disempowers us.

Sensitive to our environments, minds take on all sorts of flavours, it has nothing to do with you. And although disturbing in itself,  a crazed mind or chaotic, restless energy in the body is not a personal failing and neither is the conditional relief that can be experienced from a temporarily stupified mind and body, an accomplishment. Ask any bartender.

– Join a meditation group or start one

Meeting with others once a week can be supportive and encourage you throughout the week.

– If you find that you get sleepy…

Try not to eat for an hour or so beforehand, try some breathing exercises,  a cold shower,  do it after a run or time in the garden, try gently slapping the body, gazing upwards for a while (holding the eyeballs up stimulates alertness) or keeping your eyes open.

– Know what times suit you

Some find it especially difficult to maintain distance from thoughts in the morning because they feel that they have so much to remember to do in the coming day to make it go right; and some too easily lose alertness or fall asleep in the evening.

Know what times suit you, know that there will always be reasons not to, and that encountering resistance is part of the practice.

– During the working day

Particularly over lunch, some office buildings will let you book office space, some teachers set aside their classroom, people go to their cars, to a park or to graveyards to carve out the time and space for them to sit quietly.

– To focus you before you start

Consider having a quote or some words of something that you’re really into at the moment in your practice to remind you of why you practice, or even why you love this practice…

– Consider making short, dedicated bursts of awareness meditation part of your daily life

So that you don’t go in cold every time you go to sit more formally. Some people like to commit to merely witnessing every time they enjoy a hot drink, get in the shower, do the dishes, or commit to 50 breaths as they gaze out their office widow during their working day.

Journaling is another way to strengthen self-understanding and awareness.

– Attend a retreat

Pulled from the distractions of daily life, retreat centres are purpose-built to encourage practice. From peaceful and relaxing surroundings to supportive guides and all the details of daily responsibilities being lifted from you, you give yourself the very best opportunity to unwind and sink into your practice.

Attending retreats offers you support where you might be struggling, the comradery of dedicated others, and the immersive environment can inspire your own practice.

Let this firsthand account inspire you: Experiencing Life more Lucidly through Silent IAM Mediation.

Tushita Mystery School offers support in IAM meditation, which emphasises no beliefs, no postures and no trying to master a technique to become a better something; it encourages simply resting in the awareness that exists before, after, in spite of and through all conditions.

Read: Questions about Meditation, answered

Curiously asking yourself what is a mystery school? Hopefully our full article will answer all your questions.


Who wrote this piece? Tushita Mystery School blogs are written by a number of Students at the Tushita Hermitage. Their anonymity supports their self-forgetting practice.

Filed Under: Meditation Tagged With: meditation, mindfulness

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